I bet everyone reading this think that they are nice
I have to tell you that a lot of you aren’t. I mean, I am not nice sometimes. But I am aware of it, and I feel guilty and I mull it over and think about it. Being “honest” these days has become synonymous with really just being an asshole with the end result being the tagline from said person being “just sayin'”. As though those last two words added onto any sentence makes it acceptable.
I am here to tell you; it does not.
I agree. I also believe it’s difficult not to be swayed by the views of others. This is not to be confused with valuing others’ opinions, keeping an open mind when given new information and perhaps you gain a new perspective.
I know I know what’s my point? I run a page on facebook called Own What You Say. I haven’t paid much attention to it for the last year or so but the premise was if you are going to say something take ownership of your words.
I occasionally look back and think, Jeez did I really shove that out at 2am and then go on to blog another post the next day about the same thing as if my mouth had diarrhea? Yep! That was me. Sometimes I think “maybe I should just delete that post and make like I didn’t go just a bit overboard”. But you know, I am just as human as you and if I don’t leave said posts there to remind myself of those mistakes it would be easy to let myself think I am just as “nice” as a lot of people pretend to be.
I would rather say, yeah I gotta get a better filter for my mouth especially after midnight. I want to stay truest to myself and I know who I am and how I got here. That doesn’t mean I never get pissed off, or have a bad day. It also doesn’t mean I think saying “just sayin'” makes being rude acceptable. But I can’t think of one person who knows me who would say they thought I was fake. And I would always rather have it that way and I like my integrity.
**This is a post written a while back as well. I actually have several that I am going to push out “as is” over the next several weeks**